Virgin-O-Logy Control of Sexuality
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Sex maniacs' sexual footprints imprinting virgin minds.
Sexual imprintingSexual experiences imprint on our minds due to brain pleasure chemicals,
so we want to experience them again and again.
Imprinting is distinguished from other types of learning:***
- an imprint, once learned, is never forgotten (i.e. imprinting is irreversible particularly in males, if not intensely treated)
- an imprint can only be learned during limited time (imprinting can happen in a critical period only, affects pre-pubertal and pubertal children in the worst case scenario)
"Sexual researchers have found that an individual's lifelong sexual tastes and preferences are strongly influenced by initial sexual eperiences in adolescence. The patterns established in an adolescent's first sexual experiences, then, act as a template through which sexual possibilities are viewed and imagined, and which steers sexual fantasies and subsequent sexual activity. These initial sexual patterns can even determine what a person may prefer to do in bed many years later. Even in societies with tightly „constructed” sexual customs, the imprint of initial sexual experiences can continue to have a strong influence on later sexual behavior."
James Neill: "The origins and role of same-sex relations in human societies", 2009
"The imprint appears dependent on a long-term positive-affect situation - one where the sexual seduction occured in a manner perceived by the survivor as positive due to the many benefits attached including affection, love (paraphilic), support, both emotional and material (clothes, trips, movies, physical contact, a port-in-the-storm to escape to when necessary, a parental substitute and a myriad of other benefits that the child wanted or needed). After a period of time, a relationship developed that was also perceived by the survivor as positive and beneficial until exposure or abrupt separation occured.
Quite often, when the sexual molestation begins in early or late childhood, where the survivor's developmental stage is characterized by a need for acceptance and approval from adults, the secret relationship and behavior is accepted and not reported. In most cases this is due to either the request or demand of the offender, or results from a fear of losing the relatioship and all of its benefits, or both."
William E. Prendergast: "The merry-go-round of sexual abuse: identifying and treating survivors", 1993
Sexuality control deficit
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Sexual deviants dehumanize, humiliate, imprint their deviances.
Contest oppression and engage in collective self-defence!
The internet offers unlimited opportunities for ordinary citizens to become politically engaged, particularly to those who are victims of paraphiliacs themselves, as well as home, school, workplace careres of persons victimized by sexual deviants.
Also the voice of the medical, legal and educational profession oposing aggresive dehumanization and humiliation cannot be ignored any longer.