The three dams strategy of control of sexuality
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Rivers of life before junction.
Innocence (what is sex?)
Purity (no sex)
Prudence (no direct contact sex)
Virginity (no penis - in
- vagina sex).
No sex awareness.
and guardians should extend this stage of human development to an as
late age as possible, at best to puberty .
Innocence can be lost before puberty by exploring the world,
particularly the forbidden areas of it. To minimize disastrous outcomes
of too early sexualization of children, parents and guardians should
keep a friendly and loving family approach to the risk, as
well as two
clearly set rules (1) ‘no dirty touch’ and (2) ‘naked body privacy’,
and consequently, more calm than exaggerated disapproval of
Spontaneous discoveries including playing doctor
among peers or pleasant sensations resulting from self-stimulation must
be clearly distinguished from the outcomes of the intentional
sluttification of the young. The last ones are preventable by
of moral (religion based), and legal (universal
human rights based)
Premature preoccupation with sexuality distracts the
child from his or her normal developmental efforts and step by
blocks all paths of creativity except of the sex related
Parents’ and guardians’ responsibility may be dulled by insane
pseudoscientific hoaxes, intense campaigns of sex obsessed sluttifiers,
and anti democratic governments actions openly violating human rights.
Innocence ends in quest for sexual pleasure.
Imprinting mechanisms can be responsible for ruined lives and ruined
lives of victims of those who lost their innocence prematurely.
know what sex is. And I don’t want to know it until marriage. There are
far more important issues to deal with than sex. Involuntary reactions
of my body prove I am healthy and fit, but sexual urges which I
experience I sublimate successfully into my achievements in many fields
of creativity. This is why my curriculum vitae is impressive and
competitive. All of my many friends accept my lifestyle, otherwise they
wouldn’t deserve my friendship. I haven’t been abused so I’m still a
virgin, and will preserve my virginity until marriage.