The three dams strategy of control of sexuality
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Rivers of life before junction.
Innocence (what is sex?)
Purity (no sex)
Prudence (no direct contact sex)
Virginity (no penis - in
- vagina sex).
'Everyone is struggling with the weakness of the flesh'
ends in persistent
sinful surrender to sexual temptations. A person can become pure again
after having shifted to independence from transient indulgence in
sexual activity, solo or partnered, moderate or excessive. A
victim of sexual abuse, even the one who is systematically raped and
experiences an orgasm, still remains pure. Purity is an issue of free
'Three temptations - the body hunger, desire for fame, the desire for
wealth. It would seem that the first temptation is the lightest, the
next more difficult. Meanwhile, not everyone wants to be famous, not
everyone wants to rule, have a VCR and Volvo, but everyone struggles
with weakness of the flesh.' Father Jan Twardowski (1915 - 2006) "Everywhere was full of you" p. 26.
Confessing our weaknesses makes us strong.
realize the power of sex, both constructive and destructive. I have
been raised by loving, caring and supportive family and
how to resist temptations. Sexual urges which I experience prove I am
ready for marriage, but before the wedding night comes I will do my
best not to surrender to them, as I strongly believe in moral,
psychological and physical integrity of each human person. All of my
many friends accept my lifestyle, otherwise they wouldn’t deserve my
friendship. Neither consciously nor, to my best knowledge and belief,
unconsciously, I have been forced to have sexual intercourse so I’m
still a virgin, and will preserve my virginity until marriage.